Our family of 5 plus our 2 dogs, multiple fish and a bearded dragon all live (rather) harmoniously in a 1,100 sq. ft. home. Is it easy? Not always. Is it worth it? Absolutely. Why does our family choose to live in a small house when we could live in a much larger one? How do we deal with the challenges of being crammed into a small space for 12+ hours a day? Keep reading. I will share the pros and cons of living in a small house with a family. And, I’ll give you tips for staying sane while doing so.

Living In A Small House With A Family
Who Lives In Our House
I’ll start off by listing all of the inhabitants of our home. As far as humans go, there’s myself, my husband, and our three children, Noah, Ollie, and Benji. We share our 1,100 sq. ft. home with our two dogs (one small, one medium), over a dozen fish (most of which are housed in a 6-foot long tank), and an adorable bearded dragon who thinks he’s a frog.
Throughout the Spring and Summer, the population of our home usually grows in the form of furry/slithery critters. In the past, we’ve adopted snakes, pond fish, toads, birds, stray kittens and even a baby owl. Don’t worry, we never keep them. We simply observe them, rehabilitate them, re-home them or release them back into the wild.
We also manage to entertain fairly regularly and we host three members of my husband’s family for two weeks each December. Yes, we are that crazy. There’s a nearly constant stream of young people (my kids’ friends) coming in and out and raiding our refrigerator. Which, by the way, I wouldn’t trade for the world. They are like family to us.
Why We Do It
You may be wondering why we are living small in 1,100 sq. ft. Did we lose a bet? Did we buy a small house when there were only two of us and later started adding children? Maybe we misread the real estate listing when we bought our home and thought we were getting 11,000 sq. ft. instead? Nope. We chose this home on purpose.
Throughout the twenty years, my husband and I have been married, we’ve had the opportunity to live in homes of varying sizes. We’ve lived in houses the size of our current home when it was just the two of us. We lived in a 400 sq. ft. apartment, when our oldest was 6 and our middle son was 2. The house we owned before we purchased this one was more than twice the size (about 2,400 sq. ft.).
In fact, it’s because of the last home we owned that we decided to live in a smaller one. The house was great. As I said, it was around 2,400 sq. ft. and was situated on over 5 acres in the country. However, the mortgage was not so great. When we purchased the home in 2007, we were living on one (fairly small) income. But the bank said we could afford it and we listened. In fact, the bank qualified us for much more than we purchased our home for. It didn’t take us long to realize, sure, we could afford the mortgage payments. IF we gave up eating, electricity, and the vehicle my husband used to get back and forth to work. Somehow, we managed to stick it out for five years before we admitted defeat and put our house on the market.
After that experience, we vowed if we ever bought a home again, it would be one we could comfortably afford.
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Where We Ended Up
The experience with our too-expensive-for-us house led us down the path of living small. When we sold our home, we also sold almost everything in it. We moved with our three children to a small apartment close to my husband’s work and could only fit the basics. Unfortunately, we thought we had to keep some stuff and ended up renting storage space for a while.
Amazingly enough, I soon realized I love living in smaller spaces. I started to declutter with wild abandon and soon emptied out the storage unit. I discovered by living small we were not only saving money, but we were becoming closer as a family, and I spent less time cleaning and “organizing” (ie. shuffling things around).
Prior to purchasing our current home, I started reading tiny house blogs. I was fascinated with the idea of living in a tiny house, however, my family was not. As a result, we compromised and signed a contract on our current 1,100 sq. ft. 945 sq. ft. home. A huge bonus was that we could afford it and still have a life. After all, being house-poor is no fun.
Pros And Cons Of Living In A Small House With A Family
PROS:
- As I said before, it didn’t take me long to discover how quick and easy cleaning a small house can be.
- Our family has grown closer to each other because there’s nowhere to hide.
- It’s inexpensive to heat/cool.
- Home maintenance projects are less expensive and are easier to manage. (When we lived in a much larger home, we couldn’t even afford a can of paint for the walls!)
- Our lack of space to fill keeps us from owning stuff we do not need.
- Entertaining in our small home is still possible with a little bit of imagination (and some folding chairs).
- Our home has “character”. It was built in 1904 and they just don’t make them like that anymore!
- More time. Because we don’t spend a lot of time on our small home, we can spend more time on pursuits we enjoy.
- We may actually make money when we decide to sell. Because our home is at a lower price point and we have made upgrades, it should sell quickly and net us a profit when we decide to list it.
CONS:
- Remember when I said, “There’s nowhere to hide?” There really isn’t. Sometimes I lock myself in our tiny bathroom just to have some time alone. But somehow, the kids still manage to find me.
- Even though our small house is easier to clean, the dust seems to build up quickly. Or maybe we just notice it more?
- Bedtime can be tricky. My two youngest share a room and have different bedtimes. As a result, one is sleeping when the other wants to hang out in their room.
- Waking up before the kids is difficult. I try to tip-toe around, but they always manage to hear me. Perhaps it’s the creaky floors.
- It can be loud. Really, really loud. If you like quiet, serene spaces and you are thinking of living in a small house with kids, you may want to reconsider.
How We Manage It
There are four things I (am learning to) do in order to keep my sanity while living small.
- Cultivate patience. Not just with others, but with yourself as well. Things aren’t always kittens and daisies when you are sharing a small house with your family. There are times when you will need to use the bathroom but will have to wait in line. You will then get angry with someone and inevitably snap at them. Accept this fact and try to be more forgiving of yourself (and the person who was hogging the bathroom).
- Know that it is okay to seek time alone. While all of the extra time together as a family is a wonderful thing, eventually, we all crave solitude. Carve out a small area (a closet or a corner) of your home where you can go when you are feeling overwhelmed by all of the chaos. If you can’t find such a space, head out for a walk, drive to the library (where everyone has to be quiet), or to the nearest coffee shop.
- Get outside. Including the outdoors as part of your living space can instantly enlarge your perspective on living in a small house. Try to get outside as much as possible. Even if you lack a yard, your family can take walks together for a change of scenery.
- Invest in noise-canceling headphones. Seriously, they are a life-saver. When you have a husband who likes to watch movies at theater-like levels while you are trying to compose a blog post on the computer just ten feet away, having noise-canceling headphones will save a life. His life.
If you are thinking of living in a small house but aren’t sure if you should take the plunge, I highly encourage you to just do it. Our family is nothing special and if we can do it, you can too. There are plenty of people with families larger than ours who live in homes that are smaller than ours. None of us are saints and none of us have it all figured out. Our family has learned to adapt over the years and yours will too.
Make a list of pros and cons. If the number of your “pros” is greater than your “cons” it may be time to move your family into a small house.

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I love this article! We are thinking of moving into a 1290 sq. ft. house down from over 3000. I may have just found the encouragement to do it! I WILL be purchasing some noise-cancelling headphones, though. Thank you!
We have moved in to help care for my elderly parents and are planning to build on a beautiful property out of state. The parents are coming with us. In drawing house plans, I always add lots of closet space and can’t imagine not having it. Part of the struggle is wanting to accommodate my parents and their treasures over the 53 years of living in a home with big rooms, lots and lots of storage spaces, and a basement! Or maybe that’s partly my justification! I appreciate reading this and the posts about decluttering and organizing. I’m still searching for our balance in this.
I love this article! My husband and I are currently trying to downsize our home. We are a family of 6 living in almost 4,000 sq ft and it’s waaayyy too much!! Like you, we can technically afford it, but we don’t want to! I found this article encouraging as I often worry I’ve beckme too accustomed to living large and will have a hard time downsizing. But, I’m a simple person and grew up poor, so I know it will be so much better for all of us to come down a notch (or ten) in our lifestyle. Now, if we could just find a house and unload our current one!! So glad I found your blog!!!
When my kids were 1 and 4 we moved into a 300sqft fifth wheel rv (with my husband and a cat). It was rather cozy but we managed to stay there for 19 months. You just make it work.
We then moved into a 1 bedroom 750sqft apt. You also just make it work. Prioritize and simplify! Sometimes my kids (now 3 and 5) say our home is too big and want to go back to our 5th wheel!! We are thriving as a family though. We are creative and spend a lot of time “adventuring”.
I encourage anyone to simplify simplify simplify. Especially with kids. Don’t spend all day cleaning. Spend all day relationship-ing.
Growing up, my small family lived in a large home and I often wondered what it would have been like to grow up in a smaller home. I appreciate that you mentioned how living in a small home means that there is nowhere to hide, and thus family members grow closer. Thank you for the tips regarding the choice of a smaller home.
Hi Cheryl, I read your post and smiled, although our family dynamics are very different -we are empty nesters with two dogs and a chook and have downsized to a tiny 3×1 cottage, our appreciation of the your pros and cons of living in a smaller house are the same. I love the easier cleaning and also notice the dust more, but I agree with you,
it is probably because we actually live in every room and notice it as soon as it settles. I had to chuckle at your reference to creaking floor boards, one of the cons of our little old cottage too, good to know I am not the only one who is aware of the noise they make when you are trying to move around quietly and yes we both use noise cancelling headphones too. Thanks for your great blog and putting a smile on my face. Good luck with your lovely family and your cosy home I bet it is gorgeous. Cheers Trish
I may be able to dig up my current house’s layout and measurements. If I can find it, I will be sure to include it in this post.
Thank you for that post. Would you be willing to share your house plan with us? We might be building a house, cause we have some land. In our house market there are only big houses.
Jaclyn,
You absolutely do not need a bigger house! Don’t listen to the naysayers! We’ve lived even smaller, with all 5 of us in about 700 square feet for a while. It is totally doable. AND we’ve always had at least one pet added to the mix. Plus, babies take up very little space 🙂
Thank you for this blog! My husband and I have a daughter and a medium size dog. Our house is 788 square feet. We are thinking about any other child but everyone keeps saying we ‘need’ a bigger house and it will never work in this one. A bigger house is not an option right now. I’ve been letting some people get in my head and tell me trying for a bigger house is more important then expanding our family (which is more important to my husband and I)
It’s great to hear that it’s do able! Thank you so much
Amy, I completely agree! When we lived in a {much} larger house than we do now, we could never afford to do anything cosmetic to it. We were too busy spending that money for its upkeep! 🙂
Small house means less to clean, smaller bills. If I want to change the wall colors it doesn’t cost a lot of money to get done and not a lot of time to do it. My house is around 930 sq ft. Thinking about to get small house with eco friendly concept and cost efficient, I heard http://www.biesterbos.nl is best choice. They are a trusted developer have proven with their exceptional quality.